Breaking Up With Fiance

[Flex]

I recently found out that my fiance is in love with a guild member from World of Warcraft. I found out about this by over hearing a phone conversation. She is probably planning to be together with this person even though it is long distance.

I asked her to leave after a 3 year relationship. When I talked to her about breaking up she had no reaction and obviously did not care. I puked thinking about breaking up.

I am glad that we did not get married and have children. It is better that I found out about this now than possibly wasting 10 years of my life. If I had not heard this conversation I would not have believed it so I am in a bit of shock.

I have developed a slant on marriage. This is engagement number 4. I don't think I can be in any more long term relationships.

This is what is going through my head right now:

1) How can someone be so deceitful and lead two separate lives? This has been leading up for months. What a stab in the back.
2) How can anyone fall in love with someone they have never met and of all things World of Warcraft?
3) What a bitch.

I have an appointment next week with the doctor for an STD check. I don't know who else she may have been with. I am going to talk to the doctor about medication for stress. I know this will eventually wear off over time but right now I feel so lost.

Anyways I just wanted to vent a bit. Hope you are having a better day.

 

[-TINY-]

oh wow!

hahahahahahaha damn im sorry, but thats just so fucken hilarious!

are you serious?

 

[Flex]

yea , I had small doubts before but I didn't want to be paranoid. Goes to show you that you should trust your gut instinct.

 

[-TINY-]

Damn, well if the bitch left you for basically a no one [unless hes a famous player] she herself aint somebody. Makes her self look pretty fucken stupid.

life goes on. Hit the clubs playboy and if your looking for a true chick go to church

 

[CaMbA_L?K?]

damn viejo.... this is fucked up... I kinda feel what u feeling right now... but not the whole situation... you I had to go into her private stuff also to find out she cheated on me.... but its long time ago now and I can tell you meet other chicks and time will cure this ......

 

[Sickminded]

yea , I had small doubts before but I didn't want to be paranoid. Goes to show you that you should trust your gut instinct.

damn, she played you like she was playing that game...sick...

if she wants to get her kicks hooking up with gaming wienies, let her be..
dont stress about it...just move on like a real G....

3 yrs of your life too.......

 

[Rose]

You seem like a nice guy. I'm really sorry to hear that this happened to you. It really seems like there's a lack of quality people out there. In the place I live, a medium sized Texas town with a couple of Univerities, it seems like there's a lot of people with some depth and good qualities. I know a lot of people with good, long term relationships. Maybe the place where you live has an atmosphere that is more likely to have shallow, superficial living there?

 

[Thumper Pomona]

look down i posted twice

 

[Thumper Pomona]

Hay i now what you feeling dont trip i felt that pain it fucken sucks for real talk about mortal combat, look you will find some one worth while i met a person and dam the more i talk to her the more i feel like DAM you dont know what you have till its gone but you dont know what you have been missing till it comes along. And thats on my moma. LOL hell ya it last for a couple off days it hurt like a mother fucker. Lucky i didn't go and kick his ass all over that cassino i thought about jail and fuck that. she can leave as she pleases and i hope you can deal with the pain but it does go away. i give you this pep talk because a few member gave it to me and i am thankfull for that so i hope i help in some way.

 

[Dark Angel]

Sorry Flex...it happens to the best of us.....
Don't worry about it, you will be over her in time.

 

[Ghost_303]

time heals all wounds fuck it you cant do anything but wait...wait til you meet someone else and wait til the pain goes away i feel bad for you especially since u say this is the 4th time or whatever thats really messed up i hope you find the one for you

 

[Adam007]

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha, i couldnt help laughin bro, now this is the real time to look forward.
Forget the past; Have some another one... life is full of different colors, you'll find a good life partner. best of luck