i need some advice

[chipper]

i need sum advice im 18 years old i been with muh gurl for almost two years and we got a baby together i love her to death she always holds it down for me i cheated on her i dont know how many times and she only knows about one and she took me back because of our baby. i know shes a good woman because everytime i call her she answers my calls everytime i go to her house shes there with my son. she buys me and our son clothes and whatever else we need.i feel like a fuck head because im doing this dumb shit but i cant help myself i try to stay focused and do the right thing but its like i always fuck it up.and im sposed to be a man for her and my son and thats what im tryna be.she puts up with my lies and all the other shit more then any other bitch has.i love her and dont wanna lose her but im scared to tell her the truth what ya think i should do?

 

[HAVOC]

Men are made to fuck around...dont worry, she aint going anywhere..
do your thang homie.
she'll learn to live with it.

 

[babyangel*]

no don't listen to havoc
tell her da true and if she loves u as much as u think she does she will forgive u
u can keep lies from each other dat messes everthing up

 

[HAVOC]

dont listen to babyangel*
if you tell her then she's gonna bring it up every chance she gets.
just keep things like they are and until she shows proof,
DENY DENY DENY

your lies are keeping a smile on her face.

 

[JagPaw99]

the last person anyone should be taking advice from is babyangel*.

 

[PRiNCESSiTA]

i THiNK THERE ShOULD nOT BE LiES iN A RELATiONSHiP...hONESTY N CoMMuNiCATIoN<--aRE VERY IMPORTANT..sO LiKE BAbyangel said if SHE REALLY LoVE YOU LiKE YA THiNK SHE'LL BE ABLE TO UNDERSTAND N FORGiVE U AT A POiNT SiNCE WE ALL DO MAKE MiSTAKES AT SoME POiNT

 

[z123]

i need sum advice im 18 years old i been with muh gurl for almost two years and we got a baby together i love her to death she always holds it down for me i cheated on her i dont know how many times and she only knows about one and she took me back because of our baby. i know shes a good woman because everytime i call her she answers my calls everytime i go to her house shes there with my son. she buys me and our son clothes and whatever else we need.i feel like a fuck head because im doing this dumb shit but i cant help myself i try to stay focused and do the right thing but its like i always fuck it up.and im sposed to be a man for her and my son and thats what im tryna be.she puts up with my lies and all the other shit more then any other bitch has.i love her and dont wanna lose her but im scared to tell her the truth what ya think i should do?

I think u should tell her everything, n help her open her eyes on wat kind of boy u really r, so afterwards she'll b smart enough to leave ure azz!

 

[KayeDee]

man i feel u havoc. and babyangel how you know if i tell her everything she wont leave me? after everything i put her thru i wouldnt be surprised so i might as well keep it 2 muhself because i dont wanna lose her. and as for you z123 i think maybe your pry rite but then again i dont know.

 

[JagPaw99]

WTF? KayDee is Chipper?

 

[BabyDoll619]

thats what it looks like!

idk who half the people on bp are anymore.. ):

 

[JagPaw99]

yeah,that's why I made the regulars list.

 

[BabyDoll619]

most of the regulars don't even post anymore.. </3

 

[JagPaw99]

the majority were a bunch of lames anyways.

 

[KayeDee]

ja ja dam wut the phuck kinda shyt is that??? ur dumb chipper, how could u go n do sum shyt like that 2 me...common sense if ur gonna post stuff u could like do it under a different name and use a different computer instead of mine...n try a whole different site u musta wanted 2 get caught!!! NEXT TIME LOG OUT!!!! but wutever i got the whole scoop now so i guess u could get ur shyt n leave!!!!

 

[JagPaw99]

ja ja dam wut the phuck kinda shyt is that??? ur dumb chipper, how could u go n do sum shyt like that 2 me...common sense if ur gonna post stuff u could like do it under a different name and use a different computer instead of mine...n try a whole different site u musta wanted 2 get caught!!! NEXT TIME LOG OUT!!!! but wutever i got the whole scoop now so i guess u could get ur shyt n leave!!!!

lame.

 

[sunsagleaming]

i need sum advice im 18 years old i been with muh gurl for almost two years and we got a baby together i love her to death she always holds it down for me i cheated on her i dont know how many times and she only knows about one and she took me back because of our baby. i know shes a good woman because everytime i call her she answers my calls everytime i go to her house shes there with my son. she buys me and our son clothes and whatever else we need.i feel like a fuck head because im doing this dumb shit but i cant help myself i try to stay focused and do the right thing but its like i always fuck it up.and im sposed to be a man for her and my son and thats what im tryna be.she puts up with my lies and all the other shit more then any other bitch has.i love her and dont wanna lose her but im scared to tell her the truth what ya think i should do?

sometimes it is best just to keep your mouth shut and bury your past on your own. pray to god for help. find one person in your life (besides her, cause your problems will hurt her)....that you can be ACCOUNTABLE TO. maybe you are a sex addict?? there is help out there....seek it and you will find it.

do whatever is necesary to save your family. you dont want some dime ho to ruin your childs chance of having an intact family to grow up with.

please....think about your responsibities and take them seriously. you can have a great life. you need to sit down and really decide if having a family is worth you sacrificing acting like a player with no responsibilities.


i can PROMISE YOU....in 10 years the game WILL NOT BE THE SAME fun and good times that it is when @ the end of the day no matter how many women you bag ...you will not be able to depend on a damn one. you will miss the life you could have had.

make the right choice and stop living your life like "the grass is greener on the other side."

everyone has problems and baggage if you get to know them well enough.

sounds like you have great things going for you.


once again...dont' tell her your dirty secrets...tell them to someone not involved and be accountable to that person......do whatever you have to do to set yourself straight to live by the morals you want to live by.


god bless and good luck!

 

[lady_riskie]

wtf you should be ashamed of yourself she's does everything for you and you still fuck up she deserves better tell her and you'll see the results hopefully you learn this time [no]

 

[joecater]

i have been into a similar situation and a spell caster helped me out..i am doing great with my spouse now,,you can contact the spell caster on adebisidamy@yahoo.co.uk

 

[Budguy68]

Nah its ok, you're just following Hispanic culture and no one can blame you for that.

 

[J.Ruiz]

sometimes it is best just to keep your mouth shut and bury your past on your own. pray to god for help. find one person in your life (besides her, cause your problems will hurt her)....that you can be ACCOUNTABLE TO. maybe you are a sex addict?? there is help out there....seek it and you will find it.

do whatever is necesary to save your family. you dont want some dime ho to ruin your childs chance of having an intact family to grow up with.

please....think about your responsibities and take them seriously. you can have a great life. you need to sit down and really decide if having a family is worth you sacrificing acting like a player with no responsibilities.


i can PROMISE YOU....in 10 years the game WILL NOT BE THE SAME fun and good times that it is when @ the end of the day no matter how many women you bag ...you will not be able to depend on a damn one. you will miss the life you could have had.

make the right choice and stop living your life like "the grass is greener on the other side."

everyone has problems and baggage if you get to know them well enough.

sounds like you have great things going for you.


once again...dont' tell her your dirty secrets...tell them to someone not involved and be accountable to that person......do whatever you have to do to set yourself straight to live by the morals you want to live by.


god bless and good luck!

True ^......What happened was that you got tied down so quick and so young. you know inside the reason why you wont tell her whats going on.....because you know she'll leave you........just be responsible with ever move you make...and you know what i mean by that.......you're young.....you dont have to be tied down, but niether does she....if you got it good....then straighten up and stop playing with her.............or you could just be feekling guilty...........and know one but yourself can help you with that bro......................