oh i cant believe im doing this

[LADiiLUNii]

ok...so last night i had a fight con mi novio. he got all mad cuz i wanted to go out clubbin u kno? pero he started trippin cuz i wanted to go wit jus the homegrls. he said no cuz then all the other vatos gonna b checkin u out n wanting to get wit u an all dat. so i said fine i wont go. then he said no i cnt stop u do whatever. dont even think of me.....he later on started sayin he gonna go get high n theres no words for wut might happen (he was gonna blaze it with a grl)....so im lke have fun n lke u said dont even think of me. he said y should i if ur not gonna? he made me feel so bad when he said ur not gonna take me up on ma offer? i wrote bakk to him sayin no not in a million years will i ever take u up on "ur offer". i love you too much n care for u too much to hurt u in a any way.....so now idk wut to do.....sorry for writin alot. wus he right to start trippin lke that?

 

[MrCort3s]

Me cay que no. Trust is key, If he really trusted you, it wouldn't matter if others are checking u out, cause' they can see, but they cant touch. But thats how i see it. I have trust in any relationship im in.

 

[LADiiLUNii]

True That Mijo. He Says He Trustes Me Pero Sometimes Como Que Se Le Safa El Clavo De La Cabeza.

 

[~*Lil_Lokita*~]

i agree con el cortes u have 2 trust para kerer a una persona
ademas dicen q el hombre llega asta donde la mujer kiere asi q si el confia en ti debe de saber q no le vas a poner el cuerno
y no porq andes con el namas deves de estar con el

 

[LADiiLUNii]

True that lokita.....I mean we do practiaclly evrythng togheter. So I guess siente el cambio o piensa k lo voy a dejar or somethng.

 

[liil_mamii_01]

IN MY OPINION I WOULD SAY HE WAS JUS LOOKIN OUT FOR YOU BUT THEN AGAIN HE GOT TO TRUST YOU TO BE GOIN 2 PLACES WIT OUT HIM AND HE HAS THE TRUST FROM YOU THAT YOU WONT CHEAT OR DO SOMETHING STUPID.....YOU FEEL ME

 

[LADiiLUNii]

IN MY OPINION I WOULD SAY HE WAS JUS LOOKIN OUT FOR YOU BUT THEN AGAIN HE GOT TO TRUST YOU TO BE GOIN 2 PLACES WIT OUT HIM AND HE HAS THE TRUST FROM YOU THAT YOU WONT CHEAT OR DO SOMETHING STUPID.....YOU FEEL ME

I FEEL U MIJA. N THANKS FOR UR OPINION.

 

[Picky]

yeah, he must be jealous and protective. sometimes it's a good thing but you have to deal with it.. talk to him and make him agree!@

 

[LADiiLUNii]

yeah, he must be jealous and protective. sometimes it's a good thing but you have to deal with it.. talk to him and make him agree!@

I AGREE THANK U

 

[Domented]

Wtf eh ur man has 100% reason to trip he u and me and every person tats been to a club eh know how it is thier i mean b real would u b ok wit him goin wit his friends hela drunk at a club dancing and u know how guys act when they drunk dancing at a club wit girls around them i mean shit vatos cant help themselfs not sayin he would cheat on u but its like he wsould have a girl freak dancing on hiim am jus sayin alota vatos dnt like thier girls goin to clubs because shit happens eh its not a matter of trust its simply hes not comfortable wit it cause usually no good can come from ur girls goin out every night to clubs wit her homegirls its bad on serious relationships

 

[el chapo]

si yo fuera el yo te sacaria a los club's para evitar problemas i no enogarnos yo asi soy con mi esposa ami no megusta dicutir con ella

 

[Budguy68]

This is another reason why I can't relate to people here and their drama.

When I was in a relationship with most of my EXes their love for me was so tight that I would have to encourage them to go out with their Guurrrl Friends an sheeit. Sometimes they liked it when I was bossy. A REAL relationship is where the man can go out with his friends and do whatever he feels like doing and the women can go out to but still stays faithful to the man.

Your vato sounds like a whiny bitch.

 

[lokita_corona]

hes got to trust u

 

[sunsagleaming]

ok...so last night i had a fight con mi novio. he got all mad cuz i wanted to go out clubbin u kno? pero he started trippin cuz i wanted to go wit jus the homegrls. he said no cuz then all the other vatos gonna b checkin u out n wanting to get wit u an all dat. so i said fine i wont go. then he said no i cnt stop u do whatever. dont even think of me.....he later on started sayin he gonna go get high n theres no words for wut might happen (he was gonna blaze it with a grl)....so im lke have fun n lke u said dont even think of me. he said y should i if ur not gonna? he made me feel so bad when he said ur not gonna take me up on ma offer? i wrote bakk to him sayin no not in a million years will i ever take u up on "ur offer". i love you too much n care for u too much to hurt u in a any way.....so now idk wut to do.....sorry for writin alot. wus he right to start trippin lke that?

no...he's trying to control you. ask yourself...can you handle being with a man where it's ok for him to do it ...but not for you..

and i'm not trying to judge on you..i know how you don't want to dissapoint someone you love even if they are a pendejo....

but in the end.....what he does is his responsiblity.

it sounds like a cop out to me...threatening you that he will cheat on you getting high with chicks cuz your at a club.

b.s.

everyone is accountable for their own actions no matter the environment.

 

[CHiKiS_707.]

UGH.GUYz OVER REACt.FUUREAl.DONT PAY NO MiND.