Hey i need advice on my marriege, well me and my wife have been seperated for a year. she asked me for a divorce. our problem is that i met her in california and we got married . My job was slow so i moved to chicago with her. She didnt like it because all my familly was there. she said that it wasnt fair. so the problems began. I got laid off from work and my worst problems began. I was recieving 500$ from unemployment a week. All my money i spent it on her. i did everything in my power to make her feel good so she wouldnt miss cali. i even took her on trips to mexico and sent her to see her mom quite a few times. but one day she told me that she was going nuts and the only way she could feel better is if we gave each other time. so she flew back with her mom and she said she"d be back. long story short she didnt come back and she wants me to go to cali with her. I cant go because i have diabetes and divertculosis and thank fully have free care. i wouldnt have free care if i move. i also got a great job know but she says if we are going to be together it is only if i move back to cali. i lover her but i love my life too.
should i divorce?
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interesting first post.
She wants to be with her mom more than you ese.
She wants to be with her mom more than you ese.
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if she isnt happy with the situation, and your trying to provied the best that you can and she dont like it its time to move on
Instead of wasting your money on her and trying to spoil her and buy her love, save your money in the bank and find a woman who can appreciate and respect you and your famila. how many years did you date before you got married to her and how many years have you been married to her? does she work and if she does, who earns more, you or her?
^^ I Agree. She obviously doesnt have YOUR well-being in mind. Its not hard to see, from your own post, that she is a selfish woman. She seems a little insecure/immature if she cant be without her mother...yeah, no one likes being away from thier own family at such long distances, but thats part of "growing up".....to the point..........LET HER GO. if you have to, get a sheet of paper anf write down all the positives and negatives of being in this relationship....you'll see if its worth it......from what u have posted, I say NO.
It appears your wife is greedy and a spoiled woman, who needs the best of everything, from the sounds of it she seems like she still posses a juveniles mentality. Running from both of your problems, by escaping to mexico to her mother. If she really cared about you deeply she would take it into consideration, what i mean by this is your HEALTH. You don't need a HIGH Maintenance female especially if you don't have a good range of income at the current moment. You should put her to work, so she can help you financially as well, if you stick with her put her out in the work force.
Both of you need to discuss this topic, but do whats best for your self man, it seems as if she doesn't care much for you as she can care less about your health, and she's just going to keep wanting those pricy adventures to paradise out in mexico soaking up your pockets like a sponge.
GO YOUR OWN WAY
Both of you need to discuss this topic, but do whats best for your self man, it seems as if she doesn't care much for you as she can care less about your health, and she's just going to keep wanting those pricy adventures to paradise out in mexico soaking up your pockets like a sponge.
GO YOUR OWN WAY
i agree
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