I am trying to figure out if my boyfriend really loves me.. He says he does and i mean it sure does seem like it but its just doubtful...he is always with me and says he wants to buy a house for us when i turn 18 and that he is going to wait for me until then. He asked me to marry him and says he wants to have a baby with me but yet i am not sure because he does not trust me or when i tell him i was home all day he doubts me and says i am lying!!! I really care for him and want us to work but i am not sure if he feels the same.
he is setting you up to be at home and loaded...(pregnant)!!!!
he will have all the control, make all the money, pay all the bills, and do whatever the fk he wants to when he wants to do it.
your job will be to stay at home, maybe have a cousin or one of his FRIENDS WIVES that he trusts to "hang out with" at home...that way they can both check up on you like your in diapers.
please.......dear god.....dont' sign up for this life.
he doesn't love you the way you know is right.
he wants you becuz you fit his machista standards of a good wife and woman.
you can find a traditional man with out all this added bullshit.
get some hobbies....hang out with your friends...if he doesn't support that...which it sure looks like he doesn't.....he needs to gtfo of your life.
you deserve happiness and to be treated like a grown woman, not a servant.
ooohhhhh and men like this can get much worse....he will control you since he believes it's right, and very likely he will hit you to.
