well, jus be happy with who you are, but i can see that you not so, dont worry, we in the same boat, sorta, yeah we are..........lol, but anyways, if you want to change the way you look well its not just eatin habbit, its a life change, food, activities, and maybe friends, start by changin the way you eat, you have to eat 3 proteinas, 2 arrinas, verduras ilimitadas, 3 frutas, and healthy snack, it got to be MEAL, snack, MEAL, snack, MEAL, all small size.............get nor active, dancin, runnin, jumpin, somethin that makes your heart pump, you need multi vitamins, water, off the sodas, and when i say friends i mean that some friends wont wanna do the same thins as you to get active so you might end up gping out to be active wit other ppl, which lead to new friends, that dont happin all the time but it do..............if i get more ideas ill hit you bach no doubt.