some advice pleez 4rm gurlz

[lonely_mami_916]

wat thread

 

[Dark Mexican]

hay peoples go on the otha thread where them racist white boys are talkin shit bout our raza!

these white people are hatin on us hard lol

 

[Dark Mexican]

on the one in relationship advice and the one at the bottom where its teh help threads

 

[lonely_mami_916]

ill cap on any person right now it ain t neva nada

 

[Hazer]

lonely_mami_916 - if you respect yourself as a female your going to dump his ass and look for a guy thast has more respect for you.

 

[lonely_mami_916]

wat do i do forget him like nothing iwant someone in my life i dont wanna be alone thats my biggest fear

 

[Dark Mexican]

yo boss man hazer! empty ur inboz nigga damn lol

 

[lonely_mami_916]

o kay wat u talkin about

 

[Dark Mexican]

who me nothing? lol look ya u need 2 drop him and get a new man

 

[lucky]

look ur a nice girl and i know u aint gon b alone if u wanna just listen 2 ur heart and c wat u come up with

 

[lonely_mami_916]

get me a new nigga if u say it so easy

 

[lucky]

look for u its gon b easy ur a pretty hyna and u will find any1 like what it do

 

[Dark Mexican]

get me a new nigga if u say it so easy

wat type of niggas u like?...

 

[Hazer]

wat do i do forget him like nothing iwant someone in my life i dont wanna be alone thats my biggest fear

your first step should be: focus on yourself

 

[lonely_mami_916]

u said i was hella ugly

 

[lucky]

hey hazer has a point there...

 

[Hazer]

1. Self-examination​

Now that you are on your own, this is an opportunity to figure out who you are and what you truly choose for yourself.​

2. Personal growth​

When you've done that, you can explore your own interests and learn what you want to learn.​

3. Re-establish the real you.​

You probably made changes during the relationship that has ended. Take the time to decide whether you want to stay with those changes, or shed them like an old, ougrown snake-skin.​

4. Unload the baggage.​

It is not fair to someone in a future relationship for you to still be carrying baggage such as anger, sorrow or pain, from the previous one. Deal with it first.​

5. Assess your contribution to the problem.​

If the previous relationship didn't last, it is logical to assume you had something to do with it, even if the other person was awful. Take a long and careful look at yourself. Try dialog journaling, in which you write a dialog between yourself and the other person, presenting their viewpoint fairly.​

6. Fix it.​

Now is a good time to change that part of you, those behavior patterns that were destructive, before starting another relationship. Don't wait for a new one, thinking that someone else can 'fix' you. You are the only person who can do that.​

7. Learn to enjoy living in the present.​

You are in the NOW, the relationship you may or may not find is in the future. If you live in the future you cannot enjoy the now.​

8. Be your own best friend​

Whether or not you find a relationship, you cannot be sure it will last. You will be with you for the rest of your life. Learn to like yourself and to be good to yourself.​

9. Raise your standards.​

The higher your standards, the more likely it is that you will find someone who is capable of sharing your ideas as to what a relationship should be. If you are willing to 'settle,' just to get into another relationship, be aware that is a choice, not a necessity, because you can live without a relationship.​

10. Grow your support network.​

This is an opportunity to strengthen your friendships, to take time for lunch or dinner or otherwise spend time with friends you haven't had time to see while in the relationship.​

 

[lonely_mami_916]

thank you that means a lot

 

[lucky]

hey cuando nesecites algien aki estoy yo eh and if u need my number ask for it aight

 

[Dark Mexican]

who said u was ugly?